At long last, you’ve found the man of your dreams! He’s smart, funny, financially stable and a widower with kids! You say, “What the hell, I love him, that’s why I’m marrying him anyway, with or without his kids!” But after the ceremonies held in cloud nine, you went back to reality. To the marriage, the kids, the house, the memory of the former wife, the “witch” image commonly associated to stepmothers.

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Experts agree that formula, usually based on cow’s milk, is not, and never can be, exactly the same as breast milk. Originally intended for calves, which have big bodies and small brains, cow’s milk has had to go through many stages of processing to be made suitable for human babies, who have small bodies and big brains. Protein and salt levels have been modified, and iron has been added during the process. The two main types of formula are:

Parents are becoming increasingly anxious about the use of antibiotics, particularly if they are trying to bring up their baby in a safe and natural way. While there is no doubt that antibiotics, play a vital role in fighting life-threatening diseases such as meningitis and pneumonia, their inappropriate or repeated prescription is giving rising cause for concern among some medical experts and scientists. Antibiotics work by killing or stopping the growth of bacteria that cause infections. Though they may be effective in the short term, they have a number of side effects—such as nausea, diarrhea, yeast infection, and allergic reaction—and can even cause recurring bouts of the illness if used inappropriately, you can ask your doctor if antibiotics are necessary for mild infections.

When you travel with your baby by car, you must strap him securely into an approved car seat. The ones for infants are designed to face the rear. Now that you have a baby, you may need a car that’s comfortable, roomy, and convenient for family traveling. A spacious trunk is vital to store your baby’s buggy or stroller and all the other equipment you will need to travel with for the next few years. Hatchbacks provide easy access, and minivans have a third row of seats, some of which can convert to extra trunk space. If you plan to have more than one baby, extra seat capacity will be useful once you are ferrying small children and their friends to kindergarten and other activities. Car pooling also cuts down on pollution and helps to conserve gasoline.

Many manufacturers try to give guidelines to the age range each toy is suitable for. Use the guidelines if you are not sure whether a toy is right for your baby, but don’t be disappointed if he can’t perform all the activities or if he doesn’t show interest in the toys. Never give a child under the age of three anything small enough to be swallowed or stick in his throat. Choking accidents are a major cause of child fatalities. Each baby is an individual who will develop at a different rate. One baby may be quick to learn to pull levers and buttons, while another may enjoy looking in detail at pictures and exploring the texture of a soft toy. Here are some tried and tested toys:

Symptoms, which include wheezing, coughing, and breathlessness, usually start to occur after the first year, though from six months babies can develop a persistent nighttime cough. Asthma may be caused by an allergic reaction to substances such as house dust mites, pollen, animal dander, or food. Asthma occurs when the sensitive linings of the airways in the lungs (bronchial tubes) are irritated, swell, and go into spasm, restricting air flow. The linings may then leak mucus, which clogs the air passages even more, making coughing and wheezing worse. Babies under a year may get bronchiolitis, which has symptoms similar to those of asthma but is caused by a viral infection. Any baby with a recurrent or chronic cough should be monitored for asthma.

You will need something for your baby to sleep on. He won’t be fussy as long as it is comfortable. It should also be secure, with a safety mattress that has air vents at the end where his head will be. A bassinet with a hood to keep out drafts and protect his eyes from direct light will be suitable, as will a baby buggy.

There are several ways of transporting your baby. You need to think carefully about your lifestyle and what type of equipment would suit it best before you part with your money. For example, if you live in an upstairs apartment, you may decide that a baby buggy is impractical and opt for a baby sling and foldaway stroller. On the other hand, if you expect to do a lot of walking, a sturdy buggy with high sides to protect your baby from wind and rain may be the best choice.